How to Make a Genuine Compliment that Makes Someone Feel Noticed and Special

Complimenting someone on something unexpected can really make you stand out. Instead of just focusing on their looks or smarts, point out something unique about them. It shows that you see them for who they really are, and it can make a big difference in your relationship dynamic. Give it a try and see the impact! 😊

Enhancing Relationships 🌟

Hey everybody um sorry for the weird angle I didn’t bring my tripod cuz I wasn’t planning on filming the video I just came to charge my car and get some food but I had something that came through for me and I think it’s worth sharing with you guys cuz I definitely feel like we can all apply it to each of our own lives and probably benefit from it so what um I started thinking about was how we connect with people and how to better um enhance our relationships with people whether this is with friends colleagues family love you know romantic relationships I think this applies on all spectrums so how can you make yourself stand out from others or how can you maybe help ease someone to feel more comfortable with you and open up with you and uh for you like to seem different or to really like stick out to someone if you really want to stick out amongst other people this is definitely an easy thing that you can do that anyone can do anybody um and I want you to definitely try it out and come back and let me know how it works for you.

Key Takeaways:

👉 One thing you can do um you know like everyone um when you compliment someone or you point something out to someone I want you to focus on something that is not so obvious like let’s say um someone is super attractive they’re really good-looking this applies to both men and women so let’s say you see a really attractive girl or guy that you’re interested in and you know that everyone thinks they’re attra acve everyone probably says oh they’re beautiful they’re handsome whatever I want you to like when you’re interacting with them or talking to them maybe point out something that they’re good at that a lot of people maybe don’t see or acknowledge about them and you will see a different reaction from them um so instead of pointing out how beautiful or how attractive they are maybe say wow you’re really smart I love that book you wrote or um I love how open-minded you are like compliment them on something that a lot of people don’t see a lot of people don’t compliment them on um and I think you’ll notice like a different reaction or how they interact be like oh wow like because people if you think about humans and just people in general we like to be heard we like to be understood we like to be seen for who we are right and so when someone comes in our life and kind of sees that part of us that a lot of people don’t see we we feel more connected with them we feel more open to them we’re like oh wow like this person like me they understand me they’re not they’re not just judging me from the outside or let’s say someone who’s really smart right maybe they’re uh computer tech or um really good at math or an engineer or whatever people always compliment about people always compliment them on those things like oh wow you’re so smart you’re so hardworking maybe compliment on something else like wow you have really good salsa skills you dance so good or you know I really love how you decorate your home or like compliment them point out something different in them that no one else sees and you will see a big drastic difference in how your interaction how your relationship Dynamic works I want you to really test it out and try it out like experiment today or experiment this upcoming week with people whether it’s with your mom family co-workers um you know with your partners love and relationships and I definitely feel like you’re going to see an improvement and at least in how you guys interact and it’s an easy way to make you guys stand out from everybody else if you think oh you know everyone is attracted to this person or like I’m never going to be able to get with this person or you know they’re too good for me whatever I want you to really try this out because you’ll be surprised at how that changes the dynamic between you and this person whether it’s your boss friend brother boyfriend girlfriend husband wife whatever okay so point something out in them talk talk about things that they’re passionate about or things that you know that they’re really interested in but maybe people don’t acknowledge them about um and you’ll see that they they’ll really be more interested in talking to you um because they feel understood they feel they feel seen and they feel heard by you that you see something in them that a lot of people don’t notice in them okay so I hope that made sense for you guys it’s just something that like kind of came through and like I felt like I needed to share with you guys cuz I think it’ll greatly enhance your relationships that you have you know in this world okay so let me know your thoughts and if you try it out let me know how it goes for you or how it improves or if you see no improvement you know let me know I really want to know in the comments All right so take care and I’ll talk to you guys very soon bye